You can only do too little to somebody. Even if you think you had done too much, the decision lies within one's self...
My sister is 24 years old,inlove with a boyfriend who got no job, this guy impregnated him 2 years ago. Their baby boy died. Such a very tragic incident. As the eldest sister,i told my sister to move on and ask her what she wanna do. After the baby's death she wanted to work overseas. I helped her...She'd seen the world and came back to our country. Now,she still wanted to be together with her boyfriend. Of course, i don't support that decision nor my parents. I am a very practical person and i thought that this guy is not good for him. That there's somebody who is more deserving for her love and attention. She did listen for a while and said she wanted to work overseas again. Again, i gave the placement fee...When she's almost ready to go the unexpected news arrived---she's pregnant....and of course, she couldn't go...
I can only do too little for her. She's old enough to think wisely what's good for herself. I might be disappointed with her decision of living now to her boyfriend but i might as well accept that she is she and i cannot influence her in a way that i really wanted to. I feel sad with this situation, but disappointments happen in our lives. It happened to me before, happen to me now and there's only too little i can do. All i can do is wish her bestwishes...Take care,sister,wherever you are...
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thats what happen to my sister too. I went abroad working for them to study after graduation she got pregnant.they lived together with husband and with their baby boy now. thankfully she passed the board exam and have a job now.
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